Top 10 Reasons Why You Are Stuck In The Friendzone
So we’ve all been there at some point in our lives. Whether it’s that boy or girl next-door whom you’ve known since forever and you’ve always thought they were cute or liked how mannered they are maybe you even like their family too or it’s that guy or girl in your class you always thought were smart or funny, it’s the worst feeling to wish something had happened and never be able to say it out loud.
Let’s say it’s your fault nothing has happened yet, here are the reasons why you might still be stuck in the friend-zone.
1. You’re too scared
Maybe the reason why you are still a “friend” is because you are scared to tell them. You are afraid of what they are going to say or think about you, if you are going to lose even the little friendship you are still holding on to. Maybe you should just be brave and say it.
2. You expect them to know
Well if you haven’t said how would they know that’s how you feel? Are they supposed to guess your feelings now? Never expect people to know how you feel if you haven’t told them, they are enjoying their lives whilst you burn inside.
3. You voluntarily entered the friend-zone
If you acted like a friend from the beginning, calling them your best friend maybe you should stop wondering why you are in the position you are right now. Whether it was your pride or you didn’t like them like that then, it’s time you come out clear.
4. You don’t know how to compete
If there’s a person in your “friend’s” life maybe you feel you compete with their bond so you keep it in. Be confident in whatever you feel you got going on, you never know until you try.
5. You were to quick to take it there
If it’s someone you haven’t known for too long but clicked, maybe you jumped in too quick and ruined your chances. The fact that you are still friends shows there’s something. Be patient and allow thing to progress in their own time, if you rush it you might lose it all.
6. Bad track record as a friend
It’s easier to tolerate some behavior when you’re just friends with someone. Maybe that annoying habits you have like being late all the time and being messy is the reason why you are stuck as a friend. It can be funny when you are a friend but nobody wants to date someone who’s always late.
7. You are too friendly
Mind your behavior around them. Maybe you are just too friendly and you don’t show any romantic signs. They get the friendship vibe from you , sorry to break to you, you always be a hommie.
8. Better off as friends
If you were brave enough to tell them, and they felt your relationship would be better if you are only friends, well be glad you still have them in your life, could have been worse.
9. Scared to take it there
Why fix it if it isn’t broken huh?! That’s why you are friend-zoned, you will never know how things will turn out until you try. What happened to taking risks?
10. They don’t feel the same
Ouch! Isn’t this the worst?, risking everything, all cards on the table and they just don’t see you that way, but hey be glad your friendship didn’t expire.
